Strength Under Control: The Power of Meekness in a Man’s Life
“Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.” — Matthew 5:5
The world often tells men to be aggressive, assertive, and dominant. We’re taught to fight for our place, prove our worth, and never show weakness. But Jesus introduced a radically different way to live—one that flips worldly strength on its head and reveals the deeper power of meekness.
Meekness isn’t weakness. It’s strength under control. It’s the ability to harness our power, emotions, and passions and submit them to the authority of God. Meekness isn’t about being passive or soft—it’s about being anchored, humble, and purposeful.
What is Meekness, Really?
The Greek word used in Matthew 5:5 is praus, a word that describes a wild horse that has been tamed. The horse doesn’t lose its power—it learns how to channel it. In the same way, a meek man doesn’t lack strength—he chooses to submit that strength to God.
A meek man knows when to speak and when to stay silent. He knows when to act boldly and when to wait patiently. He doesn’t let pride drive his decisions, nor does he let fear control him. He walks humbly, with confidence rooted in God, not in his flesh.
Jesus: The Perfect Picture of Meekness
Jesus was the Lion and the Lamb. He had the power to calm storms, cast out demons, and call down legions of angels. Yet He chose to ride into Jerusalem on a donkey. He chose to wash feet. He chose the cross.
“Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle (meek) and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” — Matthew 11:29
Christ’s meekness wasn’t a lack of power—it was His power surrendered in obedience to the Father. He didn’t assert Himself to avoid suffering. He didn’t demand revenge when wronged. He walked in strength that was perfectly submitted.
The Call to Meekness in a Man’s Life
If you’re a man trying to walk in faith, know this: Meekness is not optional. It’s not a personality trait reserved for certain types of men. It’s a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:23), a mark of maturity, and a reflection of Christlikeness.
Paul told Titus to remind men “to be submissive to rulers and authorities… to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people.” (Titus 3:1–2)
Peter said to clothe ourselves “with humility toward one another” (1 Peter 5:5).
James wrote that the meekness of wisdom is shown through a good life, lived in humility (James 3:13).
Why Meekness Matters
It Honors God
Meekness says, “I trust God more than I trust my own strength.” It surrenders the need to win, to be seen, to dominate—and rests in the righteousness and justice of the Lord.It Builds Influence, Not Just Authority
A meek man is respected, not feared. He earns trust by his consistency, his calm under pressure, and his refusal to lash out. He leads with love, not with force.It Brings Peace into Relationships
Meekness stops the cycle of pride and retaliation. It chooses grace over grudges, listening over yelling, and understanding over assumptions. A meek man brings peace into his home, his friendships, and his church.It Strengthens Your Witness
The world expects Christians to react just like everyone else. When we respond with gentleness in the face of hostility, we reflect a different kingdom. People notice. And they’re drawn to the difference.
How to Grow in Meekness
Submit Your Strength Daily: Bring your power, desires, and emotions to God each morning. Say, “Lord, I give You control today. Lead me.”
Practice Restraint in Conflict: When anger rises, take a breath. Ask the Spirit to give you wisdom. Meekness shows up when it’s hardest to hold back.
Seek Accountability: Surround yourself with men who will challenge you, not just cheer you on. Let others speak into your blind spots.
Study the Meekness of Jesus: Read the Gospels and watch how Jesus interacted with others—with bold truth and tender humility. Ask God to make you more like Him.
Meekness is Masculinity Refined
Real strength isn’t loud. It’s not reckless. It’s not insecure.
Real strength is Jesus.
And Jesus was meek.
Let’s stop confusing pride for power and rage for leadership. The men who inherit the earth—the ones God lifts up—are not those who force their way through life, but those who walk humbly with their God.
If you're a man struggling to control your strength, your voice, your temper, or your pride—start here:
Surrender it.
Let the Father shape it.
Let Christ lead it.
And let the Spirit empower it.
That’s the path of a steadfast son.
That’s the way of strength under control.
